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The Resurrection of Masculinity!

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I have been reminiscing about the old days in Italy, thinking about the place where I grew up and that after school us boys would go and hang out in the streets of my home town and spend time playing soccer just with my guy friends.

As i got older we used to meet in our favorite coffee shop to discuss politics, sport, women and other current topics. The coffee shop was always filled with men probably about 150 men would pass throughout the day and maybe just a few women.

It’s not that the women were not allowed but that time was “men time” what us guys were doing and talking about was not really much of an interest for the women. After the coffee shop was closed and much later in the evenings when we were going to the clubs, dancing and partying there were always plenty of women to interact with and the polarity between man and woman was “on fire”.

Those times among my men friends were priceless, we were challenging each other and without even realizing it, increasing our masculinity just by the fact that we were spending time together.

Then I remembered the time I joined the American football team, another great opportunity to spend time with men that left me with irreplaceable memories of brotherhood.

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Same thing happened when I served in the Italian Air Force, spending 24 hours a day with just men!

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Eventually I moved to California and something quite interesting happened….

 Where ever I went and whatever I did I was always around lots of women. 

 Most of the workshops and courses that I took which were mostly for self-help and spirituality were filled with women. I certainly did not mind being around all this feminine energy, however without even realizing I started to embrace more of my feminine side, which I have to say I still enjoy to this day and the reason I like it is because it helps me to be more creative and in touch with my feelings. 

So In LA I had started to hang out more with women, finding them way more interesting than the male gender. Here in California I had too many experiences of jealousy and envy from other men and was feeling that men really don’t have much in common anymore. 

 One day though I came upon an article that stated that the general level of testosterone among men in the past 30 years had dramatically declined. I was shocked and began to read up on it some more. It was then that I realized that the modern society and behaviors had changed and that masculinity is rapidly extinguishing and it was time for me to “grab my balls” once again….

 As  an anti-aging coach I take samples of saliva to test and measure the level of hormones in men and women. Very often with the men the results are always similar…. LOW TESTOSTERONE AND HIGH ESTROGENS!

And it doesn’t matter if the man is 20 years old or 70 years old.  

 The answer for me and what I did to get my “balls back” and resurrect my masculinity was to look for the cause of this virility drop.

I wanted to know how to resolve it?

And I came to find out that there are several reasons for this new male feminization pandemic. 

 

• THE WATER THAT YOU DRINK IN PLASTIC BOTTLES.  

You see, I grew up drinking fresh water from the kitchen sink poured into real glassware or at the restaurant drinking San Pellegrino water that even nowadays is served in glass bottles. Plastic bottles leak a chemical called Bisphenol A (BPA) that increases estrogens and decreases testosterone. (for women it has created many other physical issues like breast cancer, fibrosis, infertility etc.) 

 

• THE FOOD THAT YOU EAT.  

Unfortunately,it is not anything new to hear that most of our food being produced today is not organic and is filled with xenoestrogens which are very harmful chemicals that are not biodegradable so they stay stored in our fat cells. Buildup of xenoestrogens have been indicated in many conditions including:  breast, prostate and testicular cancer, obesity, infertility, endometriosis, early onset puberty, miscarriages and diabetes. 

It might be a little more expensive but to eat organic can save your masculinity! 

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• THE DIET WORLD.

The first diets came out in the fifties during the technological boom of television and marketing and since most consumers are generally women a lot of the diet programs that you enroll in were DESIGNED FOR WOMEN. That is still the case even today, women are the main audience and therefore consumers of diet books and healthy eating programs and generally in the majority of households women cook the food and purchase the groceries and decide what meals the men would eat.

For example, in the past 20 years you kept hearing that soy was a good source of protein, so soon enough it became a big part of the typical American diet, (now people eat less and less Soy) but soy is responsible for making men more feminine and this is because the increase of estrogens.

So many other foods that are good for men like saw palmetto are seldom prepared at restaurants. I can go on and on with lists of other foods that would be better to avoid if you are a man and which foods to increase in your diet. (If you are interested in a optimal Male diet, contact me as I have developed a unique dietary system to make a man a man.) 

• SPENDING TOO MUCH TIME WITH WOMEN.

I believe that the best masterpiece that God created was a woman, so complete and complicated, so much fun to be around but guys if you want keep your masculinity intact you must spend at least 5 hours per week with just with men. 

Spending time with men will increase your Testosterone and masculinity, you will develop brotherhood, purpose, motivation and confidence essential pieces to make a man feel like a man. 

By the way this works for the women too, women should have their female time as well,  this will help to create even more polarity with your mate. 

• JEALOUSY TOWARD OTHER MEN.  

A kid is jealous of other men but a king admires other men.

 When you stop being jealous of other men you will find role models, brothers, and friends that will inspire you to be more manly …if you resist them you will never grow as a man.  

” WHEN YOU SUPPORT OTHER MEN YOU SUPPORT YOURSELF!”

 • THE “BAD MAN” PROPAGANDA. 

Over the Millennia it is unfortunate that the patriarchal society has not always treated women with the respect and the honor that they deserve, this still happens today in other primitive and ignorant cultures.  

In order to stop and awaken the male gender women came together and the woman’s revolution started. Men realized that they needed to CHANGE and therefore became more sensitive and feminine.

However, this new movement created a world of hypnotic propaganda that did not value masculinity and described men as cheaters, abusers, violent, rapist etc. etc.   

Seeing this a lot of men started to change behaviors therefore becoming more girly. 

The truth on this is that there are two sides in masculinity like in anything the bad side with all the characteristics mentioned before and a GOOD SIDE like honor, integrity, respect, protection, focus, presence, assertiveness, decisiveness etc. etc. 

So be careful because you might start to think that if you are masculine you are not an evolved good man and in doing so you will find yourself becoming way too feminine.

 • EMASCULATION. 

I had a friend that had a great relationship with his woman but as they went to live together in the same house the relationship fell apart. Why!?  He got completely emasculated and lost his balls. 

You see women want a man to take charge. They rarely say it, but they also want a man they can be proud of, one they can see as a hero and they can feel safe with.  She will constantly test a man to make sure that he is not fleeting and he is being PRESENT with all of these qualities that makes her feel safe. 

Unfortunately, because of the decay of masculinity, men rarely survive the tests that the feminine puts them through and falls into becoming too feminine just to please her, when what she really says indirectly is ” I want you to stand strong and tall and make me feel safe”.  

To avoid emasculation again a man needs to spend time with other men, when a man is in his full masculine power, she will rarely test him, and if she does he will pass the test.

I also want to mention that women have the good and feminine side as well, not just men, but today I focus on men, I will write about the feminine in another article.

If you start to apply these few principals I promise there will be a big change in your life as a man, you will get your balls back and feel more confident and masculine, I also want to mention that women are taking all these Goddess workshops … there is a very strong unseen spiritual power in masculinity!

The spiritual power of brotherhood is invincible and there are no men that cannot get it, gay men, tall men, short men, wounded men, single men, married men…

 

A man is a man and is not different from any other man. I noticed that lately there has been a lot more men searching for answers and looking to claim their power back.

 

This time, This Resurrection of a Masculinity will transform this new man into

a ” Super being ” man , a strong man with heart and balls of steel all in one.

Blessings

Alfonso

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